Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder Other Information: How parents can help

Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder - Other Information

How parents can help

Let your child feel the support and love. Know that your child’s problems are not your fault and it is not caused by bad parenting. Acknowledge your child’s strengths, and validate each attempt he makes to succeed. Children with ADHD have low self-confidence and give up before they have a chance to succeed. Support and work along with your child to maintain their self-esteem. Reaffirm good efforts and mention positive qualities and tiny improvements.
To have consistent and structured home environment. Establish basic rules when your child is young and continue those rules into the teenage years. Implement rewards and consequences to motivate the child to succeed in his challenges.
Make a list to help your child manage his daily routine. Make a list of things to be done – Keep the list short and prioritise things that need to be done immediately. Use simple drawings or pictures if child has reading issues.

Remember your child may have difficulty with planning and remembering things for very long. To help them, use the four questions – What? Where? When? Why?

Instil self-discipline and a sense of responsibility. The child should have chores to do the same as any other child. Children with ADHD feels bored easily, thus you may want to give your child different chores each day.
Keep instructions short and simple. Some very active children will be able to follow only one simple instruction at a time.
Give reminders about chores and tasks. You can help by being patient in a loving way. Remember to make lists and keep calendars of the family activities and give advanced warnings about any changes. With proper incentives, reminders, monitoring and breakdown of tasks, responsible habits can be learned.
Ask for feedback, “Did that make sense?” Ask child to repeat to make sure he understood you.
Ask questions that encourage self-awareness, “Do you know what you just said / did?”.
Read up on ADHD to help you better manage his / her behaviour and difficulties.